A 3-Week Guided Experience
BE. DO. HAVE.
What If God Has More for This Part of Your Life?
Three weeks to get clear on who you want to BE, how you want to live, and what you want to experience more of in this season of your life.
Faith · Clarity · Calm
You don't need to have the rest of your life figured out.
We're starting with
this part.
You Know What You've Been Carrying.
Now What?
Maybe something came to mind during The Weight Behind “I'm Fine.”
Not necessarily a different life.
Maybe you love many parts of the life you have.
But you want to experience it with more intention. More peace. More honesty. More of you.
Recognizing what you've been carrying matters.
A relationship.
A decision you've been putting off.
A part of yourself you've been ignoring.
A way of thinking that isn't serving you anymore.
Or simply the realization that you want something to feel different.
But what if that's not where the conversation ends?
What if the next question isn't only:
“What do I need to let go of?”
But also:
“How do I want to live from here?”
Maybe You're Asking Different Questions Now.
Maybe faith has always been part of your life.
Maybe you're finding your way back to it.
Or maybe you're simply beginning to wonder if God has a place in what you're walking through.
Wherever you are, you don't have to have it all figured out.
You may be asking:
Why does this still affect me?
Why do I keep responding this way?
What do I really want in this season?
What can I change — and what do I need to accept?
Who do I want to be in the middle of all of this?
And maybe even…
God, what do You have for me here?
You don't need all the answers before you take the next step.
Sometimes experiencing your life differently begins with asking a different question.
What If You Started Somewhere Different?
BE. DO. HAVE.
So often, we start with HAVE.
When I have more time, I'll take better care of myself.
When things settle down, I'll feel more peaceful.
When that relationship gets better, I'll be happier.
When I finally know what to do, I'll make the decision.
We wait for something around us to change before we give ourselves permission to live differently.
BE. DO. HAVE. turns that around.
Instead of beginning with what you need to HAVE, we begin with who you want to BE.
BE
Who do I want to BE in this season? And if faith is part of that question: who might God be inviting me to BE?
DO
If that's who I want to BE, what does that look like in the way I actually live? In my thoughts. My choices. My relationships. My boundaries. My everyday life.
HAVE
And when who I am and how I live begin to line up, what might I experience more of? More peace. More clarity. More connection. More confidence. More joy.
Not because everything around you suddenly changed.
Because you began living differently within it.
A Closer Look
Three Weeks to See This Part of Your Life Differently.
Be
Week One
Who do I want to BE in this season?
Before deciding what needs to change, we'll slow down and look at where you are right now. What have you been carrying? What matters to you now? What have you been telling yourself? What do you want more of — and perhaps less of — in this season?
We'll explore the woman you want to BE in the middle of the life you're already living. And we'll make room for another question, too: God, who are You inviting me to BE here?
Do
Week Two
What does living as that woman actually look like?
This is where insight begins to move into everyday life. We'll look at your thoughts, choices, relationships, boundaries, conversations, and routines — and identify where small, intentional changes could make a meaningful difference.
Not a complete overhaul. Not a list of twenty things you “should” be doing. Real choices you can begin making in the life you're living right now.
Have
Week Three
What becomes possible when who you are and how you live begin to line up?
This week, we'll look at what is already changing — and what you want to continue making room for. More peace. More clarity. More connection. More confidence. More joy. More trust.
Not because every circumstance has changed. But because you're learning that your circumstances don't get to make every decision about how you experience your life.
We'll also talk about how you carry what you've learned forward, so BE. DO. HAVE. doesn't end when our three weeks together do.
- You know something in this season is asking for your attention — even if you can't quite name it yet.
- You spend a lot of time thinking about what everyone else needs and are ready to ask what you need, too.
- You catch yourself overthinking, second-guessing, or replaying conversations and want to respond with greater peace and clarity.
- You want to make choices based on who you want to BE, rather than simply reacting to what's happening around you.
- You want to feel more present in your relationships and everyday life.
- You're curious about what faith might look like in this part of your life — whether you've walked with God for years or you're just beginning to explore.
- You don't necessarily want a different life — you want to experience the life you have differently.
- You're ready to give yourself three weeks to ask some honest questions and take meaningful steps toward what you want more of.
You don't have to be in crisis to want to grow.
Picture It
Picture What Could Feel Different.
Three weeks isn't about changing everything in your life.
It's about beginning to notice what changes when who you want to BE starts showing up in how you actually live.
Imagine…
Maybe someone asks you, “How are you?”
And instead of automatically saying, “I'm fine”…
you actually know how you are.
And you like the answer.
The Experience
What You'll Receive
Three weeks of guidance, reflection, conversation, and practical tools to help you take what you're learning and bring it into your everyday life.
3 Live Group Coaching Sessions
We'll meet live each week as we move through BE. DO. HAVE. together. Darla will teach, coach, ask questions, and create space for real conversation — so you can apply what we're exploring to your life, not just listen to another training.
Your BE. DO. HAVE. Journal
You'll receive a guided journal with questions and prompts for each week to help you slow down, notice what's coming up, and get honest about what you want in this season. This isn't homework. It's space to think.
Support & Connection
There's something powerful about realizing you're not the only one asking these questions. You'll walk through these three weeks alongside other women who are also looking at how they want to live this part of their lives — with honest conversation, encouragement, and connection along the way.
Keep Coming Back to What Matters
Can't attend live? You'll have access to the session recordings so you can watch — or revisit them — on your own time. You'll also receive simple tools and resources throughout the three weeks to help you bring BE. DO. HAVE. into your everyday life.
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Your Investment
3 weeks of live group coaching with Darla
Or choose the payment plan: 2 payments of $198.50 ($397 total). The second payment is automatically charged 14 days after the first.
Three weeks. One intentional decision to make room for you.
Not to figure out your entire life. Not to change everything at once.
But to slow down, ask better questions, and get clearer about who you want to BE, how you want to live, and what you want to experience more of in this season.
We'll bring faith into the conversation, too — making space to explore where God may be meeting you in all of it.
You don't need to have the rest of your life figured out.
We're starting with this part.
What If This Is Your Time to Ask What's Next?
You don't need a five-year plan. You don't need every relationship figured out. You don't need to know exactly where you're going. And you certainly don't need to have everything around you change before you can begin living differently.
Maybe this season is simply asking you to slow down long enough to notice:
There may be things in your life you can't change.
There may be answers you don't have yet.
But there is still so much you can choose.
And whether you've walked with God for years, you're finding your way back, or you're simply curious about what faith could look like in your life… there's room for you here.
A 3-Week Guided Group Coaching Experience with Darla Nelson
Or choose the payment plan: 2 payments of $198.50 ($397 total). The second payment is automatically charged 14 days after the first.
Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
BE. DO. HAVE. is a three-week live group coaching experience designed to help you slow down, get clear about who you want to BE in this season, explore what that looks like in the way you DO everyday life, and notice what you may begin to HAVE more of when those two align.
We'll talk about real life — your thoughts, relationships, choices, boundaries, questions, and the things that matter to you right now — with faith naturally woven into our conversations.
No.
Faith is an important part of who Darla is and it will naturally be part of our three weeks together. But you don't need to have your faith figured out to be here.
Maybe you've walked with God for years. Maybe you're finding your way back. Maybe you're just beginning to ask questions. You are welcome to come exactly where you are.
No. In fact, BE. DO. HAVE. isn't only about what needs fixing.
You may be doing well and simply sense that you want to live this season with greater intention. Maybe there's a relationship you want to experience differently, a decision you've been thinking about, something you want to make room for, or simply a desire for more peace and clarity in your everyday life.
You don't have to be in crisis to want to grow.
No. BE. DO. HAVE. is a coaching and personal-growth experience, not therapy or mental-health treatment.
We'll focus on where you are now, what you're noticing, the choices available to you, and how you want to move forward.
Our first live session is November 10 at 10:00 AM Pacific.
Week 1 — BE: November 10
Week 2 — DO: November 17
Week 3 — HAVE: December 1
Each live session runs 10:00–11:30 AM Pacific (90 minutes).
Yes, sessions will be recorded.
If you can't attend one of our live sessions — or simply want to go back and listen again — you'll have access to the recording for [X days/weeks] after each session.
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That's completely okay. You won't be required to share anything you're not comfortable sharing. You'll be invited to participate, reflect, and connect in the way that feels appropriate for you.
Darla will create a space where honest conversation is welcomed, but you decide what you want to share.
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